Be attentive to five things before five things:
Life before Death
Health before Illness
Ease before Busy
Youth before Aged
Wealth before Poverty
Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him)
Translated by Robabe Rezaei
Be attentive to five things before five things:
Life before Death
Health before Illness
Ease before Busy
Youth before Aged
Wealth before Poverty
Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him)
Translated by Robabe Rezaei
Ignorance is one of important wickedness which can be source of many sins and mistakes. Ignorance of our ego, ignorance of human eternal fate, ignorance of God and His satisfaction in life, ignorance of Begging and the Last Judgment, are all different kinds of ignorance. Of course the worst kind of it is ignorance of destiny itself. Reconstructions in the world show that we should be attentive that the world is not the place for lingering. Childhood to youth, youth to old age, health to illness, four seasons of the year, greenness and yellowish of the earth, sunrise and sunset, all of the things are the movement and transformation.
Why are computer games so popular? Have you ever seen the teenagers who spend a lot of time in front of the computer?
Computer games are very new, strange, exciting and very imaginative. In these games, the player should be a good observer, a good thinker and a good doer. Teenagers want to prove themselves and show their abilities. Teenagers are adventurous and curious. Through these games, they solve problems, discover some things and find new solutions. And it is very enjoyable for them. Teenagers are interested in some things that they can’t get them in a real world. Going to an imaginary world and obtaining them, is possible by a computer. Computer games are going to turn to complex styles which are very attractive for teenagers. They like variety.
And now, the effects of these games are very important. Some psychologists believe computer games affect children’s mentally and physically health. Some times like they lose their temper and sometimes it is their obsession. On the other hand, when they finish playing, they are unwilling to listen or to talk other people. It hurts their studying when they play for many hours a day. In summery, some of the teenagers are addicted to the games around the world.
It is important that we know the computer games don’t affect everyone in the same way. It is necessary that teenagers should be very careful about their habits. Being balanced is the best way.
My opinion about Hijab
It is better to be aware of two things before discussing about any subject. Being spiteful and having prejudgment are disadvantages for both speaker and hearer.
What is Hijab? Gorji Zeidan says: “it the meaning of the Hijab is covering the body, it was common before Islam and even before advent of Christ. It was not changed by Christianity. It was lasted to the end of medieval and it was common in
If Islam says to women having Hijab because it wants women appear in the society human presence no female presence. It shows that Islam introduce the meaning of the Hjab not what they should wear. The purpose of that is the natural meeting of men and women doesn’t turn to a factor of the stimulation. There is no doubt that the women have some attractiveness that they are more interesting than men. If these beauties are shown easily with more effectiveness to other in societies. And little by little what is more important for others are just the appearance and these physically beauties. If women have Hijab, the others pay attention to inner values and to humanity of women and they don’t receive any hurts. The first victims of unconditioned freedom are love, passion and feelings. In another words, amortization of power is sometimes physically and sometimes spiritual. And the nonHijabs amortize the great part of spiritual powers of human and it is an obstacle for raising soul of human. Hijab gives personality and humanity and dignity to women.
If Hijab is agreeable with the women’s nature why do some of people disobey this nature? This question doesn’t belong to Hijab. Some people always have acted in this way to their nature. Besides of this, some social factors have had an important role in accepting or refusal to the orders of God. If positive and suitable background isn’t provided for innate matter, many of people move away from their primary innate. Nowadays, we observe that some obvious things are doubtfully with advertisement and some fields.
As, the main purpose of Hijab for men and particularly for women is having safety relations in society. It is really related to beliefs and values of people who live in the society. The most important center of education and training is the family. Hijab is also one of beliefs which are formed in the family. When all the beliefs are companied with awareness and reason can play important role in the society. If someone received the advantage of something with the wisdom, soul and heart never can leave it. In contrary, when something is done by force it is a temporary choice.
I am talking to you about a man, a great man, who was besides me all the time. When I wanted to get married he taught me how to get ready for the pregnancy. He taught me I should be both physically and mentally for bringing up a child. He taught me how to breast the baby. He taught me when I wanted to breast the baby how to caress, touch and feel my baby. He believed that the fathers are the best friend and help for mothers. He had written a program for feeding, vaccination and bringing up the babies. I kept those instructions after 21 years because they remind me those pleasant days and a serious, hardworking man that was lover of babies. He was not only for me but also for all mothers like a friend, consular and physician. It was one of my desires, in all those years to see him and appreciate him.
Now I can remember him how he eagerly talked about the mothers and their babies. I am one of those women that are very indebted to him. I couldn’t imagine that some day I will be accepted in
At the end, I am sure, all his services as a minister is recorded in Iranians mind.
Yours faithfully,
Robabe Rezaei
Sizdah-Be-Dar is one of the Iranian’s traditional customs which I am very interested in it. But nowadays it is named the Day of Nature. It is the thirteenth day of year that people go out to the nature: parks, villages, fields and countryside. They spend hours out of their homes with holidays, days for all schools and universities and 5 days for the other people. And the thirteenth day was unforgettable day for me from childhood until these days that I have I have three children. When I was a child I waited for these days because I knew in this day the children were free to play, to eat fruits and dried nuts, to eat lunch which is made in outdoor. Parents were more kindness and more friendly to the children and some times they took part in their playing. Because of these memories now I as a mother try to make a nice and pleasure time for my children.
In another words this day has changed a bit for me. The night before Sizadah-Be-Dar, my husband and I are very busy. At first I call all of my brothers in-law and my sister in-law, my parents and sometimes some of my brothers and sisters and some of my friends to share all responsibilities. Buying fruits, cookies, dried nuts and all the things we needed for lunch, preparing all the tools we need for baking, eating, drinking and being out side for hours are some of programming that we should be careful about them. My father in-law has a small garden out of the town which is about 50 kilometer far from the town. Interestingly, the children are busy too! They call each other and talk about kinds of some tools for playing and ordering some foods!! Checking the cars, driving, setting up the tent and grilling the chickens are fixed responsibility of men.
Finally, in the morning children are the ones who wake up very soon. They know they have a very goof time this day and they don’t want to waste their time. Breathing the fresh air, being with about to relatives, being far from the hubbub of town for hours and watching the joy of the children in the end of their holidays are very pleasant and lovely for me in the New Year.
Emam Ali: (Peace be upon him)
There is no wealth like wisdom
There is no poverty like ignorance
There is no heritage like politeness
There is no supporting like consultation.
translated by Robabe Rezaei